The Call to Seek Reconciliation
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Sunday, September 6, 2026The Call to Seek Reconciliation23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Few things are more difficult than dealing with hurt, disagreement, or broken relationships. Today’s Gospel speaks directly to those moments and shows us another way.
When Jesus tells us to go to a brother or sister who has sinned, His purpose is not fault-finding or condemnation. His desire is reconciliation: “If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.”
That changes the way we approach disagreement. Instead of asking how we can prove ourselves right, we begin by seeking the good of the other and the healing of the relationship.
This does not mean pretending that differences do not matter or ignoring what is wrong. Christian love holds truth and mercy together. It allows us to speak honestly, listen patiently, forgive generously, and remain open to beginning again.
Imagine how different our families and friendships would be if we approached one another this way. Imagine how different our Church—and even our world—might be if our first desire were not victory, but communion.
Of course, none of us loves perfectly. That is why Jesus concludes today’s Gospel with a beautiful promise: “Where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”
Christ does not leave us to seek reconciliation on our own. He comes into our midst and gives us the grace to love one another as He has loved us.
Fr. Paul